Like many of you, I’ve been spending a lot of time over the past several weeks thinking about all that we are watching unfold around us; and honestly, I’m feeling the weight of it all. My general nature is to be optimistic; in fact, I like to think of myself as a “glass half full” kinda girl! But the truth is, the past three weeks have been really hard.
From a daily life perspective, we’ve all been dealing with a lot since March: COVID... remote work — which feels non-stop... COVID... Zoom... thinking about when and how we will return to normal life... COVID... our kids learning from home... COVID. Then there’s the unrest that has exploded in our country and city over the past ten days. As a human being, as a citizen of this country, as a woman and as an African-American, I am struggling to make sense of the events which occurred last week in Central Park involving Christian Cooper and in Minneapolis resulting in the death of George Floyd. I find myself thinking about Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, Philando Castile, Treyvon Martin, Michael Brown, Sandra Bland, and so many others who have suffered and died. And I find myself thinking about my young sons, my husband, my family members, my friends. I have found myself carrying a weight of sadness for all that we’ve been experiencing in this country for centuries and what we’re living and witnessing right now across the U.S. and right here in Richmond.
My heart hurts as I’ve watched peaceful protests turn to violence and as I consider the long-term physical and psychological damage on all our communities, but especially on those communities that have been historically disadvantaged. My personal belief is that violence as an act of retaliation to injustice, including in the form of looting and rioting, is not appropriate. But when I think about from where such strong emotion grows, Dr. King’s words ring for me, “A riot is the language of the unheard.” We all must listen to what people are trying to tell us, whether people are speaking through words or through action.
Over the last several days, some people have asked me what they can or should do in this moment. Let me start by saying we should not view our response as a “to do” list or as check-the-box activities. The challenge is ever-present, so the work must be ongoing, and we must all commit for the long-term. Each year at Commencement I challenge our graduates to translate the knowledge they’ve gained and the experiences they’ve had while a student in the School of Professional and Continuing Studies into service to our community. In essence, I ask them to focus on the needs and well-being of others, even knowing they long to realize their own hopes and dreams. I believe we all share this responsibility, especially at this moment. We are beyond Commencement season, but the call to all of us is incredibly strong: I believe our city and our country need all of us to be servant leaders. A phrase coined by Robert Greenleaf in 1970, a “servant leader” is one who focuses on the growth and well-being of individuals and communities, one who see others and their needs ahead of their own.
How do we do that? The truth is we cannot see or understand others’ needs until we first see them, until we understand who they are as individuals and what their lived experiences are as human beings. This moment calls us all to live in true community — to identify at least one attribute we share and then to use that as a launch pad for authentic, difficult, ongoing, clear two way dialogue, seeking first to understand the other. This is what you’ve done or are doing in your classes in SPCS. Now take that skill into our community. Take time to learn as much as you can about the experience of people who are not in your immediate circle, who don’t look like you, whose background is different from you own. Reflect on what you learn, asking clarifying questions to gain new perspectives. Then use your new understanding and perspective to enlighten and challenge others to do the same. I am committed to do the sustained and hard work, and I encourage you to join me.
I know many of you share my concern for what we see happening around us and my commitment to improving our community. I also know you may be dealing with and working through these issues yourselves. In President Crutcher’s message to the University community on May 30, he noted several resources you may find helpful during this time. Please know that I see you, and I am thinking of each of you today. Let’s care for each other and continue to provide each other grace during these challenging times.
Take good care.
Jamelle S. Wilson, Dean